Enhancing Parental Guidance: Building Strong Identities in Children with M. Aurelias Higgs

How do you stay connected to a child who is beginning to ask who they are apart from you?

Communication coach Marcus Aurelius Higgs joins Jay to talk about the preteen years, trust, and the conversations that shape a child's sense of self. Drawing on his experience as a teacher, Marcus explains why he shifted toward supporting parents: their relationship with a child continues long after a school year ends.

They explore his Show Up Framework, the value of asking questions without rushing to control the answer, and the work of building a relationship where a child can bring you something difficult. The conversation also touches on cultural expectations, social pressure, and giving young people space to develop their own values.

What We Explore

• Identity and independence in the preteen years
• Building trust through everyday conversations
• The thinking behind the Show Up Framework
• Curiosity, listening, and responding without judgment
• Helping children examine their values
• Social pressure and the need to belong
• What international teaching taught Marcus about perspective

About Marcus Aurelius Higgs

Marcus Aurelius Higgs is a communication coach who works with parents of preteens. A former educator with international teaching experience, he focuses on helping families develop trust, connection, and open communication.

Marcus: Website

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