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Dr Margit Muller - NLP & Falconry

Dr Margit Muller - NLP & Falconry

Obtaining a healthy mentality is challenging as people must fight their fears and trauma, dive deep into their minds to be aware of it and slowly begin to process it. Tune in as Dr. Margit Muller discusses how one can release the anxieties and burden...

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Obtaining a healthy mentality is challenging as people must fight their fears and trauma, dive deep into their minds to be aware of it and slowly begin to process it. Tune in as Dr. Margit Muller discusses how one can release the anxieties and burdens ingrained in their body and then return to a state of peace and serenity. She will also discuss how animals support people in remaining happy despite adversity.

Summary:

A healthy mental state is complex, significantly if it has been affected since childhood. The struggles we go through as we progress in life will burden our mental state. Discover how NPL helps you access your fear or trauma, slow the process, and heal it. Furthermore, learn how the strong bond between animals can help us relieve our mental state and potentially save our lives.

Join Master Life Coach, Professional Certified Coach, NLP master, speaker, award-winning author, and Executive Director Of Abu Dhabi Falcon Hospital, Dr. Margit Muller, as she shares the relevance of NLP and life coaching to help people break free from their fears and trauma. She will also discuss the remarkable capabilities of falcons and the feeling of being a woman falconry. Margit was the first female veterinarian and first female falcon doctor in the Middle East, then in Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates. With most falconers being male, Margit faces a difficult challenge as falconers are uncertain of her capabilities to do the job because she is a female. With her love for the animals, Margit continues to do her best. It took two years for her to be fully acknowledged by the people.

Quotes:

"Once you can start accessing those certain experiences of fear or trauma, slowly, you can start to overcome them because you can start processing them."

"You have to think that a child looks at the world in a different way; the whole world revolves around the child."

"Animals, no matter which one, helps you to get in a better hormonal state and create this happiness, this well-being, this loving feeling."

"Animals can sense all of our mental illnesses and so on. The moment that we start looking somewhere that doesn't exist, that's the moment that animals start to intervene."

"Learn to love like a dog."

Takeaway:

People need to remember that this kind of perspective on reality is only sometimes the result of an outside catalyst. It could be a simple misinterpretation of a facial expression as to how someone feels about you.

When you receive mental health coaching, you properly prepare your mind and break free from this highly tight emotional attachment.

You experience the release of endorphins, dopamine, and oxytocin, which are your happy hormones, when you pet an animal, whether a dog or a cat, even for three to five minutes.

Animals love you as you are, without any layers. You don't have to pretend anything, and you don't have to put on a show. They love you as you are.

Humans need to cherish animals, spend time with them and recognize that they're a key to mindfulness that we need to utilize correctly.

Timeline:

[2:54] – Extremely Helpful NLP

[5:54] – Misunderstanding in Childhood

[14:22] Addiction to The Feeling Of Fear

[22:09] Falconry

[30:51] Mutual Relationships between Humans and Animals

[35:32] Misunderstanding Animals

[39:31] Animals are Advanced

[44:55] Strong Bonds

Resources:

Margit Muller's social media:

LinkedIn – https://ae.linkedin.com/in/drmgmuller

Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drmgmuller

Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drmargitmuller/

Website – https://www.coachformentalhealth.com/

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Jay: /Sorry, I'm not used to that.

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I didn't know it was gonna yell at me.

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Yep.

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. It's fine.

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Zoom.

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I've gotten so used to Riverside, like
I'm just sitting here wondering in the

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background if I have audio actually
recording or is this just gonna be one

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of those that I give up to the Gods

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Gary: Holy shit, that's, Can I
record it to be safed on this side?

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Jay: It's gonna be, It's not gonna
matter because we've got her too.

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Unless you want to hear a conversation
between you and I without a third.

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That could be funny.

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It could be like dude,
what are they called?

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Madlibs, where you just insert what
you think the third party said.

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Gary: Yeah, have some fun with that.

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Might have a million questions
about Falcons though that you're

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not gonna be able to answer.

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Exactly.

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Jay: We actually do have a third
person today, Doctor Margit.

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My name is Jay.

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Welcome to the Tragedy Academy, a show
created to bridge societal divides in a

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judgment free zone using candor and humor.

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Gary, what's going on my man?

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Gary: How you doing?

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Jay: Living the dream.

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We're both repping into the AM today.

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I just noticed that.

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Gary: Oh yeah.

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Jay: We both have on their basic
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Gary: Yeah, I can't breathe,
but it looks really good.

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Jay: Thank you so much Dr.

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Margit for joining us.

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Dr.

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Margit is a Master life
Coach, professional, certified

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coach, an NLP master.

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Definitely wanna ask about that today.

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Certified mindfulness practitioner.

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Veterinarian and speaker, and an award
winning author and something really cool.

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The executive director of
Abu Dhabi Falcon Hospital.

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How you doing today, Dr.

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Margaret?

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Dr. Margit: Wonderful.

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Thank you so much for having me.

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It's an honor.

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Jay: It's an honor to have you.

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I'm looking forward to

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Dr. Margit: I think it'll
be a really great show.

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Jay: Absolutely, Absolutely.

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And you know, we were looking at all of
your stuff earlier and we couldn't stop

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sending each other links back and forth
because you've just got so many cool

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things going on, different articles.

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And I want to, I do wanna ask though,
the NLP stuck out to me because we

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have a friend of the Ryan Montis.

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Do you know him?

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Dr. Margit: I don't
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Jay: Okay.

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But you're familiar with him.

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Is that the same program?

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Dr. Margit: It's pretty similar actually.

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NLP is super cool and a lot of people
have some prejudices, regarding NLP,

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but I think it's something extremely
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use, and I think people need to be a
bit more aware what it really means.

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Jay: Do you want to tell us what it is?

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Dr. Margit: Yes, I'm happy to do so
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like a kinda brainwash, you know, like a
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brain and then you have to do it, but it's
something completely different actually.

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NLP is actually that.

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You really go back to those self-limiting
beliefs that you really go to those

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things which you cannot really.

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Yeah., sometimes, which are even
in your subconscious mind, and its

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important that you visit those things
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certain techniques that N L P.

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Teaches you that a
coach can help you with.

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for example, you can change perspectives.

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Let's say you are in a difficult
situation and you're so much

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absorbed in this situation that
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because it's just too much for you.

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So, for example, n helps you to change
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situation, to dissociate a little
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And then to look at the situation
from the outside, for example.

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So, I'm sorry, I just want to ask
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understanding because when I talked
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things that was, uh, super interesting
to me is that it utilizes, mindfulness

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and meditation practice to access that
particular part of the mind and show you

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that these particular feelings that we
get from childhood or experiences are

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actually veils that are created out of
fear that you could actually move through.

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But you are yes, stifled in your everyday
life, living in that emotional cyclone.

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Without realizing that you can
actually just step out of it and

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move on to something different.

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Dr. Margit: Exactly.

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I wouldn't even call it veils.

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I would call it even layers
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One layer above the other one that
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one which is most underneath.

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And you need to remove layer by
layer to reach to that place.

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And that is very important.

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Cause this is like, as you said,
correct, It can be caused by

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fear, it can be caused by trauma.

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It can even be caused by a kind of
misunderstanding in your childhood.

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And once you are able to start accessing.

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Those certain experiences
or fear or trauma.

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Then slowly, slowly, slowly, you can
start to overcome them because you

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can start processing them because you
start to become aware of them, and

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that is essential because this is key.

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Once you are not able to reach there
and to start processing, you cannot

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overcome it, and an LP can create to help
you in this as well as inner dynamic.

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Jay: I love that you said something
in particular in that and that

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it was a misunderstanding in
childhood, people forget that it's

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not necessarily an outside catalyst
that can cause this kind of viewpoint

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that you have on your reality.

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It can be the simple misunderstanding
of a facial expression as to how

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somebody might feel about you.

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And the last moment you saw.

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To create some kind of bizarre reality
that you have tied to that person where

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they actually, in your mind, believe
you are a kind of person, you'll create

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a personality in somebody else's eyes.

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It can be based on your
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Dr. Margit: Yes, it can be this because
you have to think that a child looks

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at the world in a different way.

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The whole world revolves around a child.

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I mean, we as an adult look at it from
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child, you are the center of the world.

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You project each single
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Don't understand that
sometimes things are different.

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And for example, I had one client and
, she had a conversation with her mother

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when she was only four years old and
her mother was suffering from cancer.

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So her mother told her
that she has cancer now.

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The little girl understood
that she herself has cancer.

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So it was a totally misunderstanding.

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Oh, because everything around
herself, Cause she's child, you

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know, she, this differentiation.

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So all her life she actually thought that
she has, so went from doctor to doctor.

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She couldn't sleep at night.

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She woke because she was, she has cancer.

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And then I did in dynamic sessions
with her, and we did also nlp,

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but mainly in the dynamics.

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So we.

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Back to the subconscious mind,
to the conversation that happened

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when she was the young girl.

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And then we found out that it was actually
this conversation that was misunderstood.

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She misunderstood it.

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And once she understood the point
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cancer, She was totally relieved.

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I sent her to a doctor to
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sure that everything is fine.

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She was a hundred percent okay.

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And then what she told me after was,
You know, it's the first night I can

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really sleep without having fear that I'm
suffering from cancer and it's a relief.

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And I suffered from this 44 years.

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So just think about this,
the freedom, impact it had.

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Yes, the freedom.

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And this new life that she could
create because she knew now.

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It was just a misunderstanding
in the conversation.

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So it, it is amazing what you
can do with these kinda tools.

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It is amazing.

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Gary, you had a question It looked like,

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Gary: Yeah, I was just processing it
I'm 43, so I couldn't imagine like

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thinking that way my whole life and
then all of a sudden, like I was wrong

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based on one thing when I was four.

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It's kind of like, I had a, I had a
friend that we were friends on Instagram,

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we texted for a long time, and we had
a little bit of an argument recently.

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It was just off the tone of a text that
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way that I, I totally didn't, you know,
we finally talked about it yesterday

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in, I was, you know, actually on the
phone and I just explained what I meant.

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She's like, Oh, I'm so stupid.

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Like, I totally just thought it was
something else and you know, I had this

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other person do something that it was
similar to what I thought that you did.

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And then, completely, you
know, misunderstanding.

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But she's over there probably thinking,
this guy's a jerk, and like he doesn't

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take me seriously and all this stuff.

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And I'm like, It's not even
what I was talking about.

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Like, totally a different topic, you know?

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So I think it's kinda the same thing.

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Jay: You will layer
experiences on that too.

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You'll have mock misunderstandings
with that person trialing it.

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Dr. Margit: Yes.

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Jay: Over and over to
get a different outcome.

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Dr. Margit: Yes

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Jay: Until you drive
yourself bat shit crazy.

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And the next time you see 'em, you
actually have anxiety for something

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that never existed in the now.

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Yes, exactly.

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So weird.

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We have a mental illness just being alive.

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So important that just a simple
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of voice, which you don't mean, but
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their own way, can really create
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really starts festering in your mind.

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It starts blocking your mind.

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It is changing your mindset
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how you deal with that person.

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And from a real great friendship,
something really disastrous can

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come out and that's where we
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And also, Yeah.

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And that's what we are doing in nlp
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from the situation and to look at
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When we look at it from a neutral point
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the position of the other person, then
we'll see that, Oh, it's not like this.

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It's not like how we thought.

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And then you can really
see what's the reality.

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But a lot of people don't
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Jay: Tough.

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Letting somebody have a key to your
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That you are allowing them in while
you are meditating with the ability

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to identify those particular areas
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Super weird, but makes complete sense.

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When you think about the way that
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described it last week as a cyclone.

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And it's literally meditation is sitting
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cow, the house, the truck or whatever.

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And I expanded upon it the other
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And I imagine that the inside of that is
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inside that snow globe, but that snow
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You can reach through it, grab
things and bring it back in.

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So you can grab the cow, but
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or a thought about something.

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And when you pull it inside,
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If you don't grab it, it's not.

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But the moment you give that life
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until you let it go and you pick the
next thing in that cyclone to grab.

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I honestly believe that we all have one
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but that's a whole nother fucking bucket.

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Gary: I have no idea what
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I lost you at like the snow globe part.

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I was like,

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Jay: Did you catch me, Dr.

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Margaret?

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Dr. Margit: I love the snow globe part.

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Gary: It's,

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I was, was with you and
then now I'm like's a,

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Jay: it's a protected area
inside the cyclone, right?

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That's all.

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Gary: He, he confuses me often.

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Jay: I love it though.

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Gary: halfway through I was
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these, and I'm like, Nope, nope.

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I have no idea what's talking about.

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Jay: I added the snow globe
to it and f'd him all up.

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Gary: I'll have to study the topic
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think it's, it's hard to like take
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emotionally attached to something too.

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It's like when you're in a bad
relationship and all your friends tell you

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it sucks and your girlfriend's terrible
and all this, and you're, in it too

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deep and you don't feel that way, but
everyone objectively is seeing, things

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going wrong and you're so emotionally
attached that you can't step back and

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be like, Wow, that's just going wrong.

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Dr. Margit: But that's exactly the point
where mental health coaching and NLP

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can help you because as you say, So much
emotionally attached to the other person

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that you're not able to look at the whole
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And once you do mental health coaching,
you set up your mind in a correct way.

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Again, you, get out of this
very tight emotional attachment.

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You get out of it and you look at
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once you're able to do that and,
you dissociate, then you're able

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to touch on it in a better way.

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You see what's really happening,
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you are in the very situation.

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If you have this emotional attachment,
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What you think you see in this emotional
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really reality to say it like that.

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And once you're able to look at it from
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then you'll understand why your
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Gary: Yeah

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Dr. Margit: Because you see that.

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The way how, let's say your partner deals
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It's not in the way how it
should be to support each

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other when you love each other.

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So, it really helps to look at things
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it helps to really clear your mind
because if your mind is too much

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involved in all of this, , you are not
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Gary: Yeah, that makes sense.

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Jay: You can't trust yourself.

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Your mind over rationalizes anything.

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You need that third party in there.

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Dr. Margit: Exactly.

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Jay: And what we don't even realize
is our entanglement is so deep.

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That we actually have an addiction
to the feeling of the fear associated

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with that particular situation.

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So much so that we will heighten it
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anxiety attack is something we don't
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because that's all we know how to do.

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Dr. Margit: Exactly, and it's also
something that support to protect you.

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I mean, for example, inner dynamics.

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We are talking about the parts
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You know, sometimes we say, Oh, a part
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and another part of me would like to sit
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So these are parts that are talking to us.

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And in situations like you
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That tries to protect you from,
Yeah, From being hurt, from

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being hurt from the partner.

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But inside then that's a protector part.

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But inside you have this vulnerable
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to really you that has been heard
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heard again, and it's stuck there.

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So the patterns of behavior is changing,
but you try to protect yourself from

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pain, from hurt, from, this of feeling
also of loneliness because what happens

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if this relationship breaks down?

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You have to start new.

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You have to create a new life
for yourself and, And you're so

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much attached to the partner.

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Also, it might be toxic, but this
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We try to remove this protector part.

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To let it understand that you had
been hurt and to, Yeah, to remove

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this burden that is so deep in your
subconscious mind that you even don't

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know that it exists, that it is there.

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And once you start to realize it
is there and you start to access

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it, then you can start to heal it.

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And once you start heating
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And that's when my clients say, you know,
it's like a burden is falling from my.

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Because that's what, it's literally,
it's a burden that comes off.

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And once this comes off, those protector
parts, they start to relax because

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now they know that the pain is gone,
the hurt is gone, this burden is gone.

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So they can just help you to
create a new life, and that is

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so essential to live happily.

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Jay: It's like the Wizard of Oz.

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Once you get a chance to peek
behind the curtain, you see what

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it's actually being created out of.

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Dr. Margit: Yes.

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Jay: It becomes complete
and total nonsense.

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It has to be so liberating as
you peel back those layers.

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Dr. Margit: Yeah.

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Jay: And you get to breathe.

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Dr. Margit: Yeah

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Jay: I mean, essentially to me, my
anxiety represents itself as like an

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anvil on my chest, and as I meditated
over the last three years, it slowly

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becomes less and less of a weight.

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Or it becomes something that I just
understand is there but doesn't

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actually have the ability to kill me.

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It has no ability.

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It's just there.

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And I'm only feeling it because the
emotional attachment that I have to

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whatever the situation is, that's it.

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Nothing more, nothing less.

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Dr. Margit: Yes.

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Jay: And I think when you get
to lighten that load on somebody

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and they get a chance to take
that deep breath and realize that

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they've been afraid of the boogie.

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For so long.

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It's literally that.

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That's what's so sad about all of it.

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Dr. Margit: Yes, exactly.

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And that's so liberating actually,
because in the end, once you're able

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to remove this and those burdens, youre
coming back to your real self, your core

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self, inner self, and this is creating
this state of serenity, of kindness.

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Once you feel this state, then you are
able to understand how to go back to it.

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And that's exactly what you said.

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This is, this is the state where, yeah,
nothing can harm you anymore because

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things become very clear, become very
peaceful, very calm, and meditation

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helps a lot with this because your mind.

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Going round and round and round
because we had like, our mind

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is like in a medical round.

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It never stops.

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We go from thought to thought to
thought, and it's never ending.

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And a lot of those thoughts are not
required because we have worries never

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move on.

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But we are not focusing just on
the present, on the very now.

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And that is so important.

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And that's where mindfulness
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Greatly, greatly helps.

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And I do a meditation, uh, a free
meditation session, uh, for people.

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And, and once I do this meditation
with, After this, they say, Oh my

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God, you know, we did one meditation.

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The guy said, You know, it's
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I can hear my heart beaten.

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Because in the meditation he slowed
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listen to his heartbeat and to himself.

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And this shows how much we are
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State of being.

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Um, that's why it's so important
to create this state of peace,

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of kindness, of serenity.

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Um, that's where yeah, you dynamics and
meditation and mindfulness greatly helps

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Jay: us being able to monitor
your autonomic system and using

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your breath as a metronome.

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And not having to actually attach
it to yourself is something that

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comes with time, but you can't mess
it up if you continue to do it.

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It's bizarre to.

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I'm not a religious person.

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I am though of the belief that most
people are right, kind of thing, that

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it's kind of a collective understanding.

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But faith for me was always something
hard for me to get my head to wrap around.

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And the only time in life that I've
ever been able to do that is meditation.

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And here's how it was.

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It was the moment that I
didn't breathe for myself.

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I know that sounds weird, but if I tell
you to breathe, you will take over.

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We're so arrogant in our
mental illness that we actually

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believe we can catch our breath.

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No, it does it on its own.

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You can stick a bag over your mouth or
whatever, but I promise you you're gonna.

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It's gonna happen, yes,
but we take it over.

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But in meditation, there's a
moment where you say, Okay, this

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one's not gonna come from me.

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And you step off a cliff and
you feel it pull itself back up.

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And it's hard at first to allow
it to continue to do that.

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But after a little while of, you
know, repeating this exercise even.

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You have faith in the fact that you
will breathe while you're focusing

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on it without doing it yourself.

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Yes.

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I don't know if that makes sense to
anybody else, but that was the only

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way that I could rationalize it.

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Gary, I'm seeing are you in

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Gary: a snow globe
While you're doing this,

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Jay: see, but I describe the look
that you have on myself all the

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time as a pig staring at a wrist.

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Like just come confundled.

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Gary: Yeah.

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thought I had it again, and then I
was, Now we're jumping off cliffs

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and are we back from the cyclone?

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00:21:32,869 --> 00:21:39,182
I mean, , it hurt my brain to get
there, but I'm there my merry go

426
00:21:39,182 --> 00:21:40,712
rounds going so fast right now.

427
00:21:40,712 --> 00:21:40,802
It's,

428
00:21:41,052 --> 00:21:42,062
Jay: That's an ad.

429
00:21:42,252 --> 00:21:44,352
that's a soundbite for the show.

430
00:21:44,562 --> 00:21:49,392
Just have you sit there and say that tune
in and have you just lay off that entire

431
00:21:49,397 --> 00:21:49,602
Gary: line.

432
00:21:49,892 --> 00:21:50,382
Yeah.

433
00:21:50,682 --> 00:21:53,472
I'm like, I, No, it's
like working overtime.

434
00:21:53,472 --> 00:21:56,702
It's like, you know, got something wrong
with your engine and it's really got a

435
00:21:56,707 --> 00:22:00,012
crank to turn over, but then once you
get going, like, then it's run fine.

436
00:22:00,492 --> 00:22:00,732
Yeah.

437
00:22:00,862 --> 00:22:01,342
Jay: That's what happened.

438
00:22:01,587 --> 00:22:02,007
Love it.

439
00:22:02,012 --> 00:22:04,377
That's kind of like, uh,
push starting a stick.

440
00:22:06,667 --> 00:22:07,977
.
Gary: Oh yeah, yeah, exactly.

441
00:22:08,257 --> 00:22:09,267
Stick shift car.

442
00:22:09,267 --> 00:22:09,477
Yeah,

443
00:22:10,107 --> 00:22:10,887
Jay: stick shift car.

444
00:22:11,097 --> 00:22:13,787
So, well then let's, uh, let's
lighten this a little bit.

445
00:22:13,787 --> 00:22:16,667
Step away from maybe the mental
health for a moment, cuz I

446
00:22:16,667 --> 00:22:19,277
need to know about falconry.

447
00:22:19,517 --> 00:22:21,197
That is so damn cool.

448
00:22:21,527 --> 00:22:27,777
You're a veterinarian and you are a
proponent for healing through animals.

449
00:22:28,017 --> 00:22:29,067
Dr. Margit: Yes, exactly.

450
00:22:29,547 --> 00:22:32,547
Um, FNS are very, very unique.

451
00:22:32,547 --> 00:22:36,507
I was actually the first female
veterinarian, the first female fon

452
00:22:36,512 --> 00:22:40,057
doctor here in, in the Middle East,
in, in Abu Dhabi, United Arabs.

453
00:22:40,437 --> 00:22:46,107
And when I came here 20 years ago, oh
my god, you know, the Faunas were not

454
00:22:46,107 --> 00:22:47,637
even used to have a hospital there.

455
00:22:48,027 --> 00:22:52,557
I mean, it was still, um, very much
in the beginning and when I came.

456
00:22:53,172 --> 00:22:55,872
They thought a woman is
never able to do that job.

457
00:22:55,872 --> 00:23:00,462
I mean, of course it was a male dominated,
Well, just all the falcons were men.

458
00:23:01,092 --> 00:23:02,232
And what's the beauty of it?

459
00:23:02,532 --> 00:23:07,332
Most of the Falcons are female because
the female falcon is the large one.

460
00:23:07,337 --> 00:23:10,902
They have one third larger than the
male, so Oh, huge, big, beautiful Falcon.

461
00:23:11,112 --> 00:23:11,352
Of course.

462
00:23:11,882 --> 00:23:15,092
A female means also, they're
more expensive than the MAs.

463
00:23:15,122 --> 00:23:19,893
This is like in real life, you know, , the
ladies are always more expensive, so the

464
00:23:19,898 --> 00:23:22,292
Jay: men know that , it's the fancier car.

465
00:23:22,292 --> 00:23:24,032
It's the one with the turbo.

466
00:23:24,272 --> 00:23:25,802
It's the weather seeds.

467
00:23:25,802 --> 00:23:27,572
It's, it's one step up.

468
00:23:27,602 --> 00:23:28,412
I, I get it.

469
00:23:28,562 --> 00:23:29,193
I'm, I'm with you.

470
00:23:29,632 --> 00:23:30,232
Exactly.

471
00:23:30,472 --> 00:23:32,632
Dr. Margit: So when I came here,
it was really, really difficult.

472
00:23:32,632 --> 00:23:36,052
You know, in the beginning,
the falconers refused to let me

473
00:23:36,052 --> 00:23:39,772
touch their falcons because they
thought, Oh my God, she's woman.

474
00:23:39,892 --> 00:23:41,272
She has no clue what she's doing.

475
00:23:41,277 --> 00:23:41,812
No, no, no.

476
00:23:41,872 --> 00:23:43,342
She CanCon.

477
00:23:43,792 --> 00:23:45,742
So they brought the falcon, their.

478
00:23:46,867 --> 00:23:48,797
Just for a peak examination.

479
00:23:48,797 --> 00:23:50,837
So you didn't even have
to touch this ficon.

480
00:23:50,837 --> 00:23:52,067
You chart took the droppings.

481
00:23:52,067 --> 00:23:53,507
You checked it in the microscope.

482
00:23:53,837 --> 00:23:55,677
But they came just to see, they

483
00:23:55,677 --> 00:23:57,557
Jay: brought side falcon.

484
00:23:57,577 --> 00:24:01,757
They brought you like a
knockoff falcon was one wing,

485
00:24:04,427 --> 00:24:08,317
Gary: like, like here's
a, that's a pigeon.

486
00:24:08,647 --> 00:24:09,797
I know what you're talking about.

487
00:24:09,797 --> 00:24:10,037
That.

488
00:24:11,057 --> 00:24:11,727
Dr. Margit: It was

489
00:24:11,727 --> 00:24:12,847
Jay: tough in the beginning.

490
00:24:14,217 --> 00:24:16,377
. I love that you stuck with it though.

491
00:24:16,617 --> 00:24:16,977
Yeah.

492
00:24:17,027 --> 00:24:21,287
You stuck with it and said, Okay,
give me your ugly pigeon I'm

493
00:24:21,287 --> 00:24:22,877
gonna give it a full examination.

494
00:24:23,237 --> 00:24:24,497
now give the, I

495
00:24:24,497 --> 00:24:27,557
Dr. Margit: said they didn't want do
it, but then they had emergencies.

496
00:24:27,952 --> 00:24:29,602
So they didn't have another option.

497
00:24:29,692 --> 00:24:33,112
Ah, so they had to bring the falcon to
me and you know, they were half dying

498
00:24:33,117 --> 00:24:35,032
themselves to bring this ficon to me.

499
00:24:35,302 --> 00:24:38,722
But then they saw that the Falcons
are surviving and this actually

500
00:24:38,872 --> 00:24:40,012
started to make the change.

501
00:24:40,012 --> 00:24:41,692
But this took around one to two years.

502
00:24:41,697 --> 00:24:42,742
It didn't go in a month.

503
00:24:42,892 --> 00:24:44,842
It was a long, long, long time.

504
00:24:44,902 --> 00:24:44,962
So

505
00:24:45,242 --> 00:24:46,222
Jay: you didn't do it for them.

506
00:24:47,372 --> 00:24:49,492
You didn't do it for them,
you did it for the animals.

507
00:24:49,672 --> 00:24:50,302
Exactly.

508
00:24:50,482 --> 00:24:52,312
I did it for the, You have to.

509
00:24:52,312 --> 00:24:52,952
There's, there's

510
00:24:52,952 --> 00:24:53,992
Dr. Margit: no, to save the picon.

511
00:24:53,997 --> 00:24:55,222
I love the picon.

512
00:24:55,222 --> 00:24:57,712
You know, and they're just,
mind you looking their little

513
00:24:57,712 --> 00:24:59,482
black eyes, it's like magic.

514
00:24:59,482 --> 00:25:02,422
You know, you just, it's like
a virus that's catching you

515
00:25:02,427 --> 00:25:03,772
and that never lets you go.

516
00:25:03,777 --> 00:25:05,542
So they're really, really amazing.

517
00:25:05,547 --> 00:25:06,872
Such magnificent

518
00:25:07,232 --> 00:25:07,472
Jay: ous.

519
00:25:07,642 --> 00:25:12,322
I'm super enamored with it because I
had, um, I had a lot of experiences here

520
00:25:12,327 --> 00:25:14,752
on of where I live with Red Tail Hawk.

521
00:25:15,082 --> 00:25:17,062
They are everywhere here.

522
00:25:17,062 --> 00:25:19,372
I've got some that follow me, that scream.

523
00:25:19,372 --> 00:25:22,882
They're always around and I've,
it's been something that has been

524
00:25:22,887 --> 00:25:27,277
on my mind for years and when I
watch these falconry videos, So

525
00:25:27,487 --> 00:25:31,327
what does a Falcon injury look like?

526
00:25:31,387 --> 00:25:32,227
Because they're hunting.

527
00:25:32,287 --> 00:25:33,877
That's what they use
these for, essentially,

528
00:25:33,877 --> 00:25:34,117
Dr. Margit: right?

529
00:25:34,117 --> 00:25:34,867
Yes, exactly.

530
00:25:34,872 --> 00:25:39,067
Because here in the Middle East Falcons
have always been used for hunting, never

531
00:25:39,067 --> 00:25:44,257
as a sport, but as a necessity to hunt,
meet, to let the veterans family survive.

532
00:25:44,927 --> 00:25:48,707
So, uh, in the old days when old
days is just 50 years ago, actually,

533
00:25:49,007 --> 00:25:53,567
when the fons were still beds in the
desert, the fcon was essential to hunt

534
00:25:53,567 --> 00:25:55,337
the meat that the family could eat.

535
00:25:55,337 --> 00:25:58,547
And for this reason, Fons are not
regarded as a sports tool here.

536
00:25:58,547 --> 00:26:02,747
Like for example, in the US, Fcon
are guarded as a part of the family.

537
00:26:02,807 --> 00:26:05,867
They live with the, they have their
own place in the bedroom, , they

538
00:26:05,867 --> 00:26:07,307
live next to the side, bring you back

539
00:26:07,577 --> 00:26:08,947
Jay: food while it's hungry.

540
00:26:09,407 --> 00:26:12,257
It literally brings you
back food while it's hungry.

541
00:26:12,437 --> 00:26:14,657
That's a bond that no
other animal will do.

542
00:26:14,657 --> 00:26:16,367
My dog won't bring me a burger.

543
00:26:16,867 --> 00:26:17,257
My dog

544
00:26:17,677 --> 00:26:18,247
Gary: eat the burger.

545
00:26:18,607 --> 00:26:19,087
That'd be awesome.

546
00:26:19,087 --> 00:26:20,857
If you could, I'd be
at her house a lot more

547
00:26:22,957 --> 00:26:23,857
Dr. Margit: You have to go there.

548
00:26:23,857 --> 00:26:28,657
But imagine a female ficon is able to
hunt and kill a, I mean, that's huge.

549
00:26:29,257 --> 00:26:29,527
That's,

550
00:26:30,337 --> 00:26:30,607
Jay: that's,

551
00:26:32,267 --> 00:26:33,757
Dr. Margit: that's blowing.

552
00:26:34,057 --> 00:26:35,197
Yes, absolutely.

553
00:26:35,202 --> 00:26:36,477
That's amazing.

554
00:26:36,867 --> 00:26:37,357
It's

555
00:26:37,357 --> 00:26:38,757
Jay: the wings span of a

556
00:26:38,757 --> 00:26:42,077
Dr. Margit: falcon one point
up to 1.2 or 1.3 meters in the

557
00:26:42,077 --> 00:26:43,297
large Falcons, the chi falcons.

558
00:26:43,297 --> 00:26:44,317
So it's pretty big

559
00:26:44,537 --> 00:26:45,157
Jay: six foot.

560
00:26:45,852 --> 00:26:47,022
Dr. Margit: Now, something like that.

561
00:26:47,022 --> 00:26:47,472
Exactly.

562
00:26:47,572 --> 00:26:47,992
Wow.

563
00:26:48,162 --> 00:26:51,792
And when they're flying, they're
able to catch another bird

564
00:26:51,822 --> 00:26:53,502
which weighs around, Yeah.

565
00:26:53,862 --> 00:26:56,382
Three to six times of
their own body weight.

566
00:26:56,472 --> 00:27:00,552
They can hunt and kill it in
the air and fly away with it.

567
00:27:00,762 --> 00:27:03,402
Just imagine you carry
one term body weight.

568
00:27:03,402 --> 00:27:06,432
I can't even, but it
shows how strong, helpful.

569
00:27:06,882 --> 00:27:09,012
But females are, females not the.

570
00:27:10,007 --> 00:27:11,327
Jay: The women are always stronger.

571
00:27:11,327 --> 00:27:17,177
I do and I'm mad if I'm in
the animal kingdom with wings

572
00:27:17,477 --> 00:27:19,487
and somebody else with wings.

573
00:27:19,847 --> 00:27:20,027
Yes.

574
00:27:20,057 --> 00:27:21,137
Knocks me outta the sky.

575
00:27:21,267 --> 00:27:22,467
I'm pitch flying around.

576
00:27:22,467 --> 00:27:30,497
Everything's going on the ground,
don't I'm That's cannibalism, right?

577
00:27:30,947 --> 00:27:31,877
That's like a chicken.

578
00:27:32,047 --> 00:27:34,147
The kfc, jerk

579
00:27:37,197 --> 00:27:38,117
Gary: FC doesn't actually have chicken.

580
00:27:39,702 --> 00:27:41,712
Dr. Margit: No, they're
absolutely, absolutely stunning.

581
00:27:41,712 --> 00:27:42,822
Absolutely amazing.

582
00:27:43,032 --> 00:27:45,402
But because, and that's where
we come back to what you asked.

583
00:27:45,942 --> 00:27:47,352
They can also fly very fast.

584
00:27:47,382 --> 00:27:52,932
They have a speed of around
to two or even up to per hour.

585
00:27:55,932 --> 00:27:59,822
And then of course they, they're
not able to see any obstacle

586
00:27:59,827 --> 00:28:01,062
that's between them and.

587
00:28:01,962 --> 00:28:03,762
So you can have a tree in between.

588
00:28:03,912 --> 00:28:08,862
You can have the owner in between, the
own in between and they'll hit, And

589
00:28:08,862 --> 00:28:17,112
we have places where comes to me for
has a leg, a broken owner, and in and

590
00:28:21,192 --> 00:28:21,732
Jay: with a goose.

591
00:28:21,732 --> 00:28:22,032
Yes.

592
00:28:22,122 --> 00:28:22,152
Oh

593
00:28:22,352 --> 00:28:25,472
Gary: man, . Yeah.

594
00:28:25,472 --> 00:28:26,712
That would be the felt I got.

595
00:28:26,712 --> 00:28:28,092
The one that just kept
running into me all.

596
00:28:29,947 --> 00:28:30,637
wouldn't

597
00:28:30,637 --> 00:28:36,317
Jay: a, that Falcon would just
continually ram into you over time?

598
00:28:36,317 --> 00:28:36,377
Gary: Yeah.

599
00:28:36,377 --> 00:28:39,377
Just walking out to go to work in the
morning and, and they just nails in bag.

600
00:28:39,377 --> 00:28:39,827
Like, come on.

601
00:28:40,347 --> 00:28:41,117
Like what?

602
00:28:43,587 --> 00:28:44,077
Dr. Margit: Yes'.

603
00:28:46,527 --> 00:28:46,877
Do

604
00:28:48,737 --> 00:28:51,617
Gary: I almost, uh, died at, when the
first time I visited him, there was a,

605
00:28:51,617 --> 00:28:54,257
what is a Sandhill crane like in the road?

606
00:28:54,547 --> 00:28:58,207
Three feet tall and just walking, came
around the corner and just almost hit it.

607
00:28:58,207 --> 00:29:01,297
And I didn't, Of course I didn't wanna
hit it, so I swerve and I'm like,

608
00:29:01,297 --> 00:29:03,507
Oh, , this thing's gonna even fly.

609
00:29:03,757 --> 00:29:05,047
Jay: We have a ton of them around here.

610
00:29:05,047 --> 00:29:06,007
They're protected.

611
00:29:06,007 --> 00:29:08,737
And they're like, Yes,
three to four feet tall.

612
00:29:08,737 --> 00:29:10,357
They bo they mate for life.

613
00:29:10,362 --> 00:29:15,334
And when an animal, there's, there's
a human bond that takes place.

614
00:29:15,394 --> 00:29:18,614
When humans find out that an.

615
00:29:19,354 --> 00:29:23,254
We'll mate for life, they go
ape shit to protect that animal.

616
00:29:23,734 --> 00:29:24,904
They love that animal.

617
00:29:24,904 --> 00:29:27,454
They have a bond with it, they need it.

618
00:29:27,514 --> 00:29:28,864
It's so weird.

619
00:29:29,224 --> 00:29:31,924
But there is some kind of
psychological things that says

620
00:29:32,494 --> 00:29:33,874
that needs to be protected.

621
00:29:34,304 --> 00:29:34,864
Pains,

622
00:29:36,064 --> 00:29:40,384
,
Dr. Margit: swans, what kinda,
anyways, evens are also for life, but

623
00:29:40,564 --> 00:29:42,034
that's the ultimate dream of every.

624
00:29:42,624 --> 00:29:45,984
To find a partner for life, and
I think that's the reason why

625
00:29:45,984 --> 00:29:50,364
we project our own dreams on the
enemies and they're able to fulfill,

626
00:29:50,364 --> 00:29:52,044
which not of us are not able to do.

627
00:29:53,334 --> 00:29:54,174
Jay: Yes, exactly.

628
00:29:54,174 --> 00:29:54,624
That's it.

629
00:29:55,464 --> 00:29:56,814
That's absolutely true.

630
00:29:57,024 --> 00:29:57,404
Go ahead, Gary.

631
00:29:57,799 --> 00:30:00,619
Gary: There's a, a lot of, Have you
ever met any of the UFC fighters

632
00:30:00,619 --> 00:30:03,379
that have gone over there and
done anything with the Falcons?

633
00:30:03,379 --> 00:30:07,819
I've seen like Cobe and some of the
other famous UFC fighters in Abu Dhabi

634
00:30:07,819 --> 00:30:09,889
have had no videos with the Falcons.

635
00:30:09,889 --> 00:30:11,119
Have you ever ran into any of them?

636
00:30:11,579 --> 00:30:11,929
No.

637
00:30:11,929 --> 00:30:12,169
No.

638
00:30:12,169 --> 00:30:12,969
Dr. Margit: Unfortunately not.

639
00:30:13,069 --> 00:30:13,249
No

640
00:30:13,649 --> 00:30:13,889
?
Gary: Yeah.

641
00:30:14,269 --> 00:30:14,389
Yeah.

642
00:30:14,389 --> 00:30:17,669
Cause we, we have fights there a lot
in Abu Dhabi and then, I always see

643
00:30:17,669 --> 00:30:20,769
videos with the guys, with the big
Falcon on their arm, , taking photo.

644
00:30:20,889 --> 00:30:20,949
Yeah.

645
00:30:21,039 --> 00:30:21,339
You know.

646
00:30:21,899 --> 00:30:22,319
Yes,

647
00:30:22,589 --> 00:30:25,529
Dr. Margit: but mean fcon are special
because they're the only animals in

648
00:30:25,529 --> 00:30:28,319
the world that are allowed to put
the passenger cap in of our Arab

649
00:30:28,319 --> 00:30:30,769
airplanes, , without a transport box.

650
00:30:30,949 --> 00:30:33,679
They travel like you and me as
a passenger, and it can happen

651
00:30:33,684 --> 00:30:36,949
to you when you're here in Abu
Dhabi airport or a Dubai airport.

652
00:30:37,219 --> 00:30:39,139
That ACON account has the on his arm.

653
00:30:39,359 --> 00:30:40,349
Goes into the planes.

654
00:30:40,399 --> 00:30:40,799
I love it.

655
00:30:40,899 --> 00:30:44,249
And the, I just has the hood on and
they just tie them with this little

656
00:30:44,559 --> 00:30:47,999
tre, and that's how they go because
they're the children of the beds.

657
00:30:48,004 --> 00:30:48,919
It's not a bird.

658
00:30:48,919 --> 00:30:50,129
They're not considered as Bert.

659
00:30:50,429 --> 00:30:50,969
They're so much

660
00:30:50,969 --> 00:30:54,959
Jay: more, they'd have to
be, I mean, that bond is also

661
00:30:54,964 --> 00:30:56,489
something that's generational.

662
00:30:56,669 --> 00:30:56,939
Yes.

663
00:30:56,939 --> 00:31:00,029
It's the same thing that
happened with canines.

664
00:31:00,449 --> 00:31:04,169
We've spent so much time with
them relied on for so long.

665
00:31:04,169 --> 00:31:04,259
Yes.

666
00:31:04,289 --> 00:31:05,969
That we have literal.

667
00:31:06,389 --> 00:31:09,569
Endorphin releases when
we touch each other.

668
00:31:09,809 --> 00:31:11,989
I can't imagine it's any
different with a hawk.

669
00:31:12,404 --> 00:31:16,244
After generations of spending
time with bloodlines, I would

670
00:31:16,249 --> 00:31:20,084
imagine there's family lines that
probably keep the same falcons Yes.

671
00:31:20,084 --> 00:31:21,674
And read them over and over again.

672
00:31:21,674 --> 00:31:25,544
So DNA has memory, I don't
care what anybody says.

673
00:31:25,604 --> 00:31:29,364
It knows Your past lives
are your past relatives.

674
00:31:29,854 --> 00:31:30,754
Your lineage.

675
00:31:31,054 --> 00:31:31,264
Yes.

676
00:31:31,264 --> 00:31:34,504
And I, I feel like that that's gotta
be a bond that's like no other.

677
00:31:34,894 --> 00:31:35,974
Dr. Margit: That bond is amazing.

678
00:31:35,974 --> 00:31:40,834
And a lot of people say the Fcon likes
the falconer because he's feeding it.

679
00:31:40,839 --> 00:31:44,404
But that's not the case because
you have this mutual relationship.

680
00:31:44,644 --> 00:31:49,054
And we did a test one time because here,
you know, the man worth is white dress.

681
00:31:49,114 --> 00:31:51,034
This white dress called Kora.

682
00:31:51,334 --> 00:31:54,994
So we wanted to know if the really
knows the owner or maybe they just

683
00:31:54,994 --> 00:31:56,824
know the dress and they just focus.

684
00:31:57,509 --> 00:32:00,449
So we took a fcon, we brought
some different people in.

685
00:32:00,449 --> 00:32:03,569
One was the owner and the fcon
could recognize the owner.

686
00:32:03,719 --> 00:32:06,479
So it has nothing to do with just
feeding or something like that.

687
00:32:06,479 --> 00:32:08,009
It's such a strong bond.

688
00:32:08,009 --> 00:32:09,179
It is a love.

689
00:32:09,749 --> 00:32:12,269
And for example, when a fcon
has an emergency and they come

690
00:32:12,274 --> 00:32:15,939
to meet two o'clock at night
and uh, , they need a surgery.

691
00:32:16,464 --> 00:32:20,364
The Fcon will wait in the waiting
room, even three or four hours, and

692
00:32:20,364 --> 00:32:24,834
they might be crying because they're
emotionally so much stressed out

693
00:32:24,834 --> 00:32:26,674
because the fcon had the accident.

694
00:32:26,694 --> 00:32:30,864
So they wait until the Fcon breaks
up again, and it shows how strong

695
00:32:30,864 --> 00:32:35,234
this emotional bond is and what
you said before this end release.

696
00:32:35,664 --> 00:32:40,404
It is amazing and that's scientifically
proven that when you pet an email,

697
00:32:40,464 --> 00:32:44,814
it can be a dog or a cat, or even a
icon, even just for three to five.

698
00:32:45,564 --> 00:32:48,894
You have a release of endorphins,
of dopamine, of oxytocin, which

699
00:32:48,894 --> 00:32:51,894
are your happy hormones, your love
hormones, your wellbeing hormones.

700
00:32:52,104 --> 00:32:57,864
So this means that the animal, no matter
which one, helps you even to get in a

701
00:32:57,869 --> 00:33:03,954
better state and creates this happiness,
this wellbeing, this loving feeling.

702
00:33:04,254 --> 00:33:07,934
And this also helps our mental state
because this is what, keeps our sanity.

703
00:33:07,934 --> 00:33:10,244
This is what keeps our happiness,
and this is what keeps us.

704
00:33:10,814 --> 00:33:15,494
Jay: You could describe this as almost
like an energetic scenario where human

705
00:33:15,604 --> 00:33:22,544
beings operate at a lower frequency and
animals operate at a higher frequency,

706
00:33:22,544 --> 00:33:25,754
meaning they have less of the mental
illness, they live more in the now.

707
00:33:26,024 --> 00:33:29,774
And that when we spend time with those
animals and we're placing our hands on 'em

708
00:33:29,774 --> 00:33:34,694
and looking at 'em, we're actually taking
on the, now we're becoming mindful and

709
00:33:34,694 --> 00:33:36,374
we're sharing that moment with the animal.

710
00:33:36,374 --> 00:33:38,174
We just don't realize what's happen.

711
00:33:38,484 --> 00:33:41,874
Dr. Margit: Yes, totally agree with you,
because this is what makes the change.

712
00:33:41,874 --> 00:33:46,284
And for example, if we look at
horses, horses are flight animals.

713
00:33:46,284 --> 00:33:47,664
They're very hypervigilant.

714
00:33:48,084 --> 00:33:51,864
But a horse can sense
your energetic state.

715
00:33:51,894 --> 00:33:55,824
It can sense what's going on with you,
even if it still meet us away from you.

716
00:33:56,004 --> 00:33:58,344
It senses this because it has.

717
00:33:59,754 --> 00:34:04,224
Yeah, feeling that it can get your
energy and for example, if you have

718
00:34:04,224 --> 00:34:08,964
people who have experienced very severe
trauma or anxiety and they're not even

719
00:34:08,969 --> 00:34:12,924
able to talk about it either with a
counselor or with a psychiatrist or with

720
00:34:12,924 --> 00:34:15,594
a coach, once they approach a horse.

721
00:34:15,918 --> 00:34:19,728
This horse is able to sense where
the pain and where the hurt is.

722
00:34:19,909 --> 00:34:24,379
So the horse will go to the person and for
example, it'll put his head on the heart

723
00:34:24,409 --> 00:34:29,659
or on the tummy or wherever, where it
can feel, where all this pain is located.

724
00:34:29,659 --> 00:34:33,589
And those people who are not able to
talk to anybody about their experiences,

725
00:34:33,949 --> 00:34:35,569
they're able to open up to the horse.

726
00:34:35,899 --> 00:34:40,279
So they start talking to that
horse because this horse becomes

727
00:34:40,279 --> 00:34:42,589
a kind of confident con a.

728
00:34:43,619 --> 00:34:48,309
Way how they can protect these inner
feelings, even their fear, their traumatic

729
00:34:48,309 --> 00:34:52,089
experiences on, and they're able to
start communicating and to opening

730
00:34:52,089 --> 00:34:54,279
up, and that's what NS can do for us.

731
00:34:54,579 --> 00:34:55,869
It's simply amazing.

732
00:34:55,869 --> 00:35:00,099
And once we understand more, and that's
why I've written my, my, my award-winning

733
00:35:00,099 --> 00:35:04,139
book about pet Your Pill hundred and
one inspiration and stories about.

734
00:35:04,459 --> 00:35:06,889
Lead you to a happy,
healthy, and successful life.

735
00:35:07,309 --> 00:35:11,959
Once we understand a pet is not just
a dog to go out for a walk or a cat

736
00:35:11,959 --> 00:35:16,576
to play with or, a bird to sing with
or a horse to ride, it that there are

737
00:35:16,576 --> 00:35:21,956
so much more that they can help us to
heal and to access this inner feelings

738
00:35:21,956 --> 00:35:25,406
that we have the feel and we can
start processing it and they can help

739
00:35:25,406 --> 00:35:27,189
us to heal mentally and physically.

740
00:35:28,344 --> 00:35:32,204
We really can get so much more
benefit outta those animals.

741
00:35:32,444 --> 00:35:32,624
Jay: We

742
00:35:32,624 --> 00:35:35,024
don't deserve any more than
that, absolutely nothing.

743
00:35:35,024 --> 00:35:36,164
We don't deserve much more than that.

744
00:35:36,164 --> 00:35:40,064
We deserve an animal at a time because
we've proven that we're not capable of

745
00:35:40,494 --> 00:35:41,714
interacting with the animal kingdom.

746
00:35:41,924 --> 00:35:46,724
It's not that animals are
something that we are above.

747
00:35:46,994 --> 00:35:48,974
In fact, it's kind of vice versa.

748
00:35:49,609 --> 00:35:51,199
Animals don't come to us.

749
00:35:51,259 --> 00:35:52,399
They'll go to each other.

750
00:35:52,399 --> 00:35:55,759
They'll hang out in groups of different
species, but they don't come near

751
00:35:56,059 --> 00:36:01,429
the batshit crazy human that keeps
trying to like poke it, prod it, eat

752
00:36:01,434 --> 00:36:04,029
it, scream at it, you know, Bri it.

753
00:36:04,034 --> 00:36:04,459
Yeah.

754
00:36:04,909 --> 00:36:05,929
Gary: Take it down and tie it

755
00:36:05,929 --> 00:36:06,139
Jay: up.

756
00:36:06,139 --> 00:36:07,849
All don't have anything to do with us

757
00:36:09,749 --> 00:36:09,869
Dr. Margit: actually.

758
00:36:09,874 --> 00:36:09,979
Yeah.

759
00:36:09,979 --> 00:36:10,729
It's sad that.

760
00:36:11,359 --> 00:36:15,049
How we misunderstand animals
actually, and how cruel many

761
00:36:15,049 --> 00:36:16,609
people are with animals actually.

762
00:36:16,699 --> 00:36:20,232
And this is certainly something
that has to change because animals

763
00:36:20,232 --> 00:36:25,032
can do so much for us, so much more
than we can ever imagine, and they

764
00:36:25,032 --> 00:36:26,742
can change our lives to the better.

765
00:36:26,802 --> 00:36:28,842
And we just need to let them do it.

766
00:36:28,842 --> 00:36:31,782
They need, we just need to let
them help us and to look at

767
00:36:31,782 --> 00:36:32,802
them from a different point.

768
00:36:33,232 --> 00:36:35,842
Gary: like violence and stuff
goes way down in prisons when

769
00:36:35,842 --> 00:36:38,722
they've introduced cats and
different animals into the prison.

770
00:36:38,722 --> 00:36:40,852
Like it's cut like immediately.

771
00:36:40,942 --> 00:36:41,212
Yes.

772
00:36:41,432 --> 00:36:42,412
Dr. Margit: Yes, exactly.

773
00:36:42,682 --> 00:36:45,412
And even if you have people who
are suffering from Alzheimer's for

774
00:36:45,412 --> 00:36:50,362
example, or Parkinson's or kind of
dementia even, they did studies.

775
00:36:50,367 --> 00:36:51,922
Even when they chat crickets.

776
00:36:52,282 --> 00:36:53,332
And I mean, we talk about.

777
00:36:53,987 --> 00:36:57,287
Already, their cognitive function
improves and they start climbing down.

778
00:36:57,347 --> 00:37:00,767
When they look at the fish tank, imagine
and just see the fish swimming in it.

779
00:37:01,157 --> 00:37:02,267
They start to relax.

780
00:37:02,267 --> 00:37:04,907
They're not, um, pounding around anymore.

781
00:37:04,907 --> 00:37:07,337
They start to settle down,
to sit down to watch them.

782
00:37:07,577 --> 00:37:12,437
So the impact they have is just
amazing, As you say, it's relaxing us.

783
00:37:12,437 --> 00:37:13,757
It brings us peace.

784
00:37:14,087 --> 00:37:16,704
It brings us , this serenity
just, we let it happen.

785
00:37:16,704 --> 00:37:17,694
We need to let it happen.

786
00:37:17,824 --> 00:37:19,774
Jay: We gotta be grateful for
the animals that allow us to.

787
00:37:20,744 --> 00:37:21,074
Dr. Margit: Actually true.

788
00:37:21,314 --> 00:37:24,584
And animals also can
sense , the state we are in.

789
00:37:24,604 --> 00:37:28,734
I mean, for example, I, I remember, um,
my mother suffered from schizophrenia and

790
00:37:28,739 --> 00:37:31,194
we had a big dog, a huge, big 80 pound

791
00:37:32,394 --> 00:37:35,484
Jay: And I have a bull, so
I I we have a big dog too.

792
00:37:35,544 --> 00:37:36,024
Yes,

793
00:37:36,024 --> 00:37:36,474
Dr. Margit: exactly.

794
00:37:36,479 --> 00:37:37,884
Then you know what I'm talking about.

795
00:37:37,889 --> 00:37:41,904
Now, this dog always went to her when she
was about to drift in her other world.

796
00:37:42,294 --> 00:37:44,234
So the dog put her paw in her.

797
00:37:44,424 --> 00:37:47,184
To try to motivate her
to take her for a walk.

798
00:37:47,484 --> 00:37:52,194
So my mother was just about to tip the
way, so this dog was not letting go.

799
00:37:52,524 --> 00:37:55,704
So she kept on doing, doing,
doing until my mother somehow came

800
00:37:55,704 --> 00:37:59,064
back, stood up, took her for a
walk, and came back to reality.

801
00:37:59,304 --> 00:38:04,524
So she really, credits our dog for
helping her to overcome those kind

802
00:38:04,694 --> 00:38:06,234
of, of schizophrenic episodes.

803
00:38:06,234 --> 00:38:10,044
And this shows how sensitive dogs
are because this dog didn't know

804
00:38:10,049 --> 00:38:11,544
what's happening, but it could.

805
00:38:12,444 --> 00:38:15,984
The situation my mother was in, and
this happens to other people as well,

806
00:38:16,284 --> 00:38:20,034
so that's so amazing when we look
at it, and this is nothing about

807
00:38:20,124 --> 00:38:22,854
training a dog or giving a command.

808
00:38:23,064 --> 00:38:27,594
The dog does it on its own because
they can sense the situation and they

809
00:38:27,594 --> 00:38:29,154
try to help you to get you out of

810
00:38:29,154 --> 00:38:29,304
Jay: it.

811
00:38:29,614 --> 00:38:33,104
I think it senses all of our mental
illness and it mental illness is the

812
00:38:33,109 --> 00:38:34,764
moment that we're left from the now.

813
00:38:34,764 --> 00:38:34,854
Yes.

814
00:38:34,944 --> 00:38:37,284
The moment that we start
looking somewhere that doesn't.

815
00:38:38,274 --> 00:38:41,274
That's the moment that
animals start to intervene.

816
00:38:41,274 --> 00:38:45,264
What you're describing to me is when you
become involved with that cyclone within

817
00:38:45,264 --> 00:38:50,094
the head, that's the moment that an animal
will reach out and put it, yes, my dog.

818
00:38:50,099 --> 00:38:55,134
My dog will actually make an audible, like
small wolf at me if I'm standing somewhere

819
00:38:55,344 --> 00:39:00,324
and not doing anything and just thinking
she'll do that to break my attention.

820
00:39:00,784 --> 00:39:01,234
Brilliant.

821
00:39:01,234 --> 00:39:01,894
Dr. Margit: It's super weird.

822
00:39:02,134 --> 00:39:02,374
Yes.

823
00:39:02,434 --> 00:39:02,554
Yeah.

824
00:39:02,554 --> 00:39:06,064
But because she can sense it,
she can sense the change in you.

825
00:39:06,364 --> 00:39:10,684
And this can be a kind of, Yeah,
a kind of energetic change,

826
00:39:10,684 --> 00:39:12,334
even a kinda chemical change.

827
00:39:12,339 --> 00:39:15,574
But they can sense it and she tries
to bring you back to the present

828
00:39:15,574 --> 00:39:19,144
moment and to bring you back into
reality and to get you out that, and

829
00:39:19,384 --> 00:39:20,794
they have the ability to do that.

830
00:39:21,094 --> 00:39:25,264
And that's the fantastic thing once
you hear her making this kinda woo and.

831
00:39:25,669 --> 00:39:28,819
You come back and you're out of
the situation and like this, she

832
00:39:28,819 --> 00:39:30,559
saves you again and again and again.

833
00:39:31,099 --> 00:39:37,669
Jay: You gotta wonder if it's a
preventative situation for them that

834
00:39:37,669 --> 00:39:42,289
it's harder to get they're human
because I, I think it's vice versa.

835
00:39:42,289 --> 00:39:42,859
They own us.

836
00:39:42,859 --> 00:39:43,409
We don't own them.

837
00:39:44,079 --> 00:39:49,599
, and I Do you maybe think that they're
trying to stop a larger energetic

838
00:39:49,599 --> 00:39:53,619
shift within their environment by
keeping the human from going bat

839
00:39:53,619 --> 00:39:59,739
shit crazy and causing like a long
term, you know, 24 hour mood or long

840
00:39:59,739 --> 00:40:04,359
term situation that the dog has to
deal with because they're much more

841
00:40:04,359 --> 00:40:06,189
susceptible, like you said, to our energy.

842
00:40:06,549 --> 00:40:09,159
They feel us when we are not balanced.

843
00:40:09,159 --> 00:40:11,799
That's why crazy dogs belong to crazy.

844
00:40:12,939 --> 00:40:14,169
That's just how it works.

845
00:40:14,169 --> 00:40:17,769
If you've got a neurotic owner,
you've got a neurotic dog.

846
00:40:18,099 --> 00:40:20,379
Like it just, that's how it works.

847
00:40:20,769 --> 00:40:24,819
So maybe they're trying to just control
their environment and keep us in check.

848
00:40:25,119 --> 00:40:25,359
They

849
00:40:25,359 --> 00:40:28,319
Dr. Margit: definitely try to keep it

850
00:40:31,809 --> 00:40:32,319
to, to it.

851
00:40:33,089 --> 00:40:35,582
.
Jay: I, I'm giving my dog a lot
of credit cuz she's always looking

852
00:40:35,582 --> 00:40:37,112
at me like I've lost my mind.

853
00:40:37,112 --> 00:40:39,302
So it's her

854
00:40:40,022 --> 00:40:40,622
Gary: very perceptive.

855
00:40:41,562 --> 00:40:44,772
Probably when you're talking about
cyclones in, uh, snow globes,

856
00:40:44,772 --> 00:40:45,642
like what are you talking about?

857
00:40:45,642 --> 00:40:46,812
No one understands what
you're talking about.

858
00:40:47,172 --> 00:40:47,752
Jay: She does.

859
00:40:47,757 --> 00:40:48,372
She looks at me

860
00:40:49,722 --> 00:40:53,202
.
Gary: It's like how they, uh, on they
get sense earthquakes and hurricanes and

861
00:40:53,202 --> 00:40:55,182
all kind of danger, like ahead of time.

862
00:40:55,187 --> 00:40:55,392
Jay: Exactly.

863
00:40:55,452 --> 00:40:55,872
Yes.

864
00:40:55,872 --> 00:40:56,672
It smelled cancer.

865
00:40:56,997 --> 00:41:01,297
They can spell diabetic
changes in insulin scenarios.

866
00:41:01,302 --> 00:41:01,377
Yes.

867
00:41:01,377 --> 00:41:01,797
That's

868
00:41:01,977 --> 00:41:02,577
Dr. Margit: insane.

869
00:41:02,577 --> 00:41:02,937
Exactly.

870
00:41:02,937 --> 00:41:03,097
Yeah.

871
00:41:03,097 --> 00:41:03,337
That's nuts.

872
00:41:03,342 --> 00:41:03,657
Exactly.

873
00:41:03,867 --> 00:41:04,827
They can even smell covid.

874
00:41:05,277 --> 00:41:10,617
So , they can even smell patients
with covid had been covid patients.

875
00:41:10,977 --> 00:41:13,642
But it shows , how
advanced they are actually.

876
00:41:14,049 --> 00:41:18,339
we always believe we are the crown
of, of everything in this life.

877
00:41:18,339 --> 00:41:21,849
But when you look at animals,
actually at the, honestly, but I

878
00:41:21,849 --> 00:41:23,079
think they're much more advanced than

879
00:41:23,289 --> 00:41:23,609
Dr. Margit_v2_Shorten: we're,

880
00:41:24,009 --> 00:41:27,729
Jay: we're crazy just building shit in
place while they sit there and look at

881
00:41:27,729 --> 00:41:29,049
the heaven they're already sitting in.

882
00:41:29,349 --> 00:41:30,459
Yes, exactly.

883
00:41:30,789 --> 00:41:30,909
Gary: Yeah.

884
00:41:30,909 --> 00:41:34,569
We're messing up everything and they're
like, We just need some grass like that.

885
00:41:34,629 --> 00:41:35,079
We're good.

886
00:41:35,439 --> 00:41:36,039
Give us some grass.

887
00:41:36,309 --> 00:41:36,489
Like

888
00:41:36,819 --> 00:41:40,299
Dr. Margit: yeah, just go back to the
basics and uh, enjoy the simple life

889
00:41:40,299 --> 00:41:42,189
actually, that's the best for everyone.

890
00:41:42,489 --> 00:41:45,579
Jay: It's almost ironic that we don't
recognize it for the mental illness

891
00:41:45,579 --> 00:41:50,259
that it is, you know, And it's also
super prideful to believe that we're

892
00:41:50,259 --> 00:41:54,969
above all of the other creatures
doing the exact opposite of us.

893
00:41:55,849 --> 00:41:56,359
Exactly.

894
00:41:56,599 --> 00:41:58,309
Didn't we learn on Sesame Street?

895
00:41:58,314 --> 00:42:00,139
One of these kids is not like the other.

896
00:42:00,469 --> 00:42:00,649
Yeah.

897
00:42:00,649 --> 00:42:01,729
I was always like, it was basic.

898
00:42:01,729 --> 00:42:04,099
It was like, this one's doing
this, this one's doing this.

899
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:06,679
Here's the fourth one.

900
00:42:06,919 --> 00:42:09,319
Human being a jackass.

901
00:42:09,739 --> 00:42:11,419
, like it's pretty plain to see.

902
00:42:14,629 --> 00:42:15,119
It's,

903
00:42:16,509 --> 00:42:16,959
Gary: Go ahead.

904
00:42:17,169 --> 00:42:19,539
I would just love to like
get inside an animal's head.

905
00:42:19,689 --> 00:42:23,279
Like what are they thinking when we're
just doing this jackass stuff constantly.

906
00:42:23,284 --> 00:42:26,999
Like are they sitting there judging
us like, or especially cats.

907
00:42:27,349 --> 00:42:29,029
Cats are always judging everybody.

908
00:42:29,029 --> 00:42:30,589
They just sit there and just judging.

909
00:42:30,829 --> 00:42:32,359
I'd say hats don't count.

910
00:42:32,749 --> 00:42:32,959
Yeah.

911
00:42:34,789 --> 00:42:37,159
,
Dr. Margit: I think they suddenly
are wondering sometimes what we are

912
00:42:37,159 --> 00:42:39,769
really doing and they're thinking,
you know, you guys, you're crazy.

913
00:42:40,099 --> 00:42:40,579
One stupid.

914
00:42:41,089 --> 00:42:41,749
Are you doing

915
00:42:41,929 --> 00:42:44,659
Jay: cats will eat your soft
parts as soon as you die.

916
00:42:45,009 --> 00:42:48,219
I don't care what love of affair you've
had with that cat for the last 12

917
00:42:48,219 --> 00:42:52,059
years, the moment you croak, it's gonna
be eating your eyeballs and cheeks.

918
00:42:52,059 --> 00:42:53,139
Within seconds.

919
00:42:53,379 --> 00:42:54,459
It's not gonna care.

920
00:42:54,464 --> 00:42:55,599
You are now lunch.

921
00:42:55,899 --> 00:42:57,999
like that love is gone.

922
00:42:58,929 --> 00:42:59,439
That's slow.

923
00:42:59,439 --> 00:43:00,549
Dog will lay there.

924
00:43:00,549 --> 00:43:02,049
Mourn wine.

925
00:43:02,199 --> 00:43:02,739
How old?

926
00:43:02,744 --> 00:43:03,029
Yes.

927
00:43:03,159 --> 00:43:04,089
Won't do anything.

928
00:43:04,149 --> 00:43:06,939
Cat, you are next on the menu.

929
00:43:08,369 --> 00:43:09,599
Dr. Margit: Dogs are different than cats.

930
00:43:09,599 --> 00:43:09,929
Definitely.

931
00:43:10,199 --> 00:43:10,259
Yeah.

932
00:43:11,139 --> 00:43:11,629
. Yeah.

933
00:43:11,819 --> 00:43:12,629
Yes, that's true.

934
00:43:12,629 --> 00:43:16,319
Cats are very independent and they
love you for the food, but the

935
00:43:16,324 --> 00:43:18,389
dogs, they love you for yourself.

936
00:43:18,394 --> 00:43:19,229
That's the beauty of

937
00:43:19,234 --> 00:43:19,409
Jay: it.

938
00:43:20,489 --> 00:43:23,759
. Yeah, I, I had a gentleman tell me a
joke one time and I'm gonna butcher

939
00:43:23,759 --> 00:43:25,949
it, but, um, I was in the barber shop.

940
00:43:26,184 --> 00:43:32,854
And he said, , if you put your wife and
your dog in the trunk of your car and

941
00:43:32,854 --> 00:43:37,024
came back 10 minutes later and opened
it, which one would be happy to see?

942
00:43:38,554 --> 00:43:39,174
the dog.

943
00:43:39,894 --> 00:43:40,374
the dog.

944
00:43:40,914 --> 00:43:41,534
The dog.

945
00:43:43,594 --> 00:43:44,704
The, the will.

946
00:43:45,694 --> 00:43:49,234
But there's a lot of
profoundness to this statement.

947
00:43:49,234 --> 00:43:49,294
Yeah.

948
00:43:50,059 --> 00:43:54,829
The dog simply knows it's not in
the trunk anymore, does not care.

949
00:43:54,829 --> 00:44:01,669
It's still, now wife literally could hold
it until the end of time as the thing that

950
00:44:01,674 --> 00:44:03,769
broke them down to the point of death.

951
00:44:04,439 --> 00:44:06,929
They will never even see light again.

952
00:44:06,929 --> 00:44:10,679
Won't get in a car, won't, you
can't say the word Buick near 'em.

953
00:44:10,889 --> 00:44:15,599
You can't do like all sorts of
condoled shit, but in reality they

954
00:44:15,599 --> 00:44:17,129
were just in a trunk for 10 minutes.

955
00:44:18,389 --> 00:44:18,629
.
Gary: Yeah.

956
00:44:18,809 --> 00:44:20,429
Society would judge you worse too.

957
00:44:20,429 --> 00:44:22,649
Like that guy put a dog in a trunk.

958
00:44:22,679 --> 00:44:24,359
Oh, the wife, I understand.

959
00:44:24,359 --> 00:44:25,979
She was probably giving him a hard time.

960
00:44:26,219 --> 00:44:26,669
The dog.

961
00:44:27,269 --> 00:44:27,599
Wow.

962
00:44:27,779 --> 00:44:28,349
I hate that.

963
00:44:28,349 --> 00:44:29,369
I hate that guy forever.

964
00:44:29,579 --> 00:44:30,299
The wife, like I

965
00:44:30,469 --> 00:44:30,749
Jay: did it.

966
00:44:31,169 --> 00:44:31,979
Did that dog mate.

967
00:44:31,979 --> 00:44:32,129
For.

968
00:44:32,754 --> 00:44:33,174
Even more

969
00:44:35,854 --> 00:44:38,934
.
Dr. Margit: That's if you wanna
have a great partner, get a dog.

970
00:44:38,934 --> 00:44:41,464
You know, , this gonna
be the past of our life.

971
00:44:42,624 --> 00:44:44,244
.
Gary: We're not gonna
give you any crap ever.

972
00:44:44,484 --> 00:44:47,004
They might get a little excited
and chew up your couch one day, but

973
00:44:47,004 --> 00:44:48,324
that's about as bad as gonna get.

974
00:44:48,534 --> 00:44:49,914
Jay: They're always happy to see you.

975
00:44:50,154 --> 00:44:51,504
There's, there's, yes.

976
00:44:51,504 --> 00:44:53,874
The forgiveness doesn't
even have to exist.

977
00:44:53,904 --> 00:44:54,544
Yes, it's, yes.

978
00:44:54,549 --> 00:44:55,424
Not even a.

979
00:44:55,869 --> 00:44:56,169
Dr. Margit: Yes.

980
00:44:56,379 --> 00:44:58,479
And even they know when you
are coming home, like when

981
00:44:58,479 --> 00:44:59,799
I'm traveling, for example.

982
00:45:00,159 --> 00:45:05,829
Even, yes, they dunno when I come, but
my dog sits at the door from the morning.

983
00:45:05,829 --> 00:45:10,749
I'm traveling, I'm reaching in the
night and he'll sit there the day not

984
00:45:10,749 --> 00:45:14,379
eating, not drinking, not going out for
a walk, just waiting, waiting, waiting.

985
00:45:14,384 --> 00:45:16,059
Because he knows I'm coming on that day.

986
00:45:16,299 --> 00:45:20,169
And that's spectacular cause how he knows
the date of my flight and the time of my.

987
00:45:20,679 --> 00:45:21,619
But they know it.

988
00:45:21,619 --> 00:45:22,969
They had this connection.

989
00:45:23,209 --> 00:45:23,389
Yeah.

990
00:45:23,659 --> 00:45:24,049
I saw

991
00:45:24,049 --> 00:45:26,659
Jay: a study on that where they
were, they took like a certain amount

992
00:45:26,659 --> 00:45:30,229
of people, a certain amount of dog
owners, and they sent them out of the

993
00:45:30,234 --> 00:45:32,989
home and they monitored the animals.

994
00:45:32,989 --> 00:45:37,789
And what they found was the
moment that the person made the

995
00:45:37,789 --> 00:45:40,259
cognitive decision to return home.

996
00:45:40,799 --> 00:45:44,519
The dog's demeanor changed
and it started to monitor the

997
00:45:44,519 --> 00:45:47,219
entrance for the owner's return.

998
00:45:47,309 --> 00:45:47,789
It's crazy.

999
00:45:47,789 --> 00:45:50,429
It's so effing weird, like I love it.

1000
00:45:51,059 --> 00:45:51,899
But it just shows.

1001
00:45:51,899 --> 00:45:56,579
The thing is we have no clue
how much we're capable of.

1002
00:45:56,879 --> 00:45:57,029
Yes.

1003
00:45:57,089 --> 00:46:00,269
If we're the most intelligent
creature on the planet, imagine

1004
00:46:00,269 --> 00:46:04,199
the moment that we harnessed
mindfulness and started kicking ass.

1005
00:46:04,439 --> 00:46:09,479
We would be unstoppable if they can
feel us from fucking light years away.

1006
00:46:09,569 --> 00:46:09,689
Yes.

1007
00:46:09,749 --> 00:46:11,729
Just because we decided to go home.

1008
00:46:12,089 --> 00:46:13,539
Imagine what we're cap.

1009
00:46:13,934 --> 00:46:14,324
Exactly.

1010
00:46:14,324 --> 00:46:14,384
Gary: Yeah.

1011
00:46:14,384 --> 00:46:16,754
We would use that for evil like humans.

1012
00:46:16,754 --> 00:46:19,754
We use that for like weaponize
it where the dog just wants

1013
00:46:19,759 --> 00:46:20,714
to see you when you get home.

1014
00:46:20,924 --> 00:46:22,304
That's it thing.

1015
00:46:22,304 --> 00:46:22,454
Yeah.

1016
00:46:23,084 --> 00:46:23,354
Jay: Yes.

1017
00:46:23,354 --> 00:46:23,414
The

1018
00:46:23,419 --> 00:46:24,374
Dr. Margit: dog's just happy.

1019
00:46:24,614 --> 00:46:25,814
It's just how beautiful.

1020
00:46:25,814 --> 00:46:28,694
It's for us actually to have
somebody who knows that we are

1021
00:46:28,694 --> 00:46:32,654
coming home, who waits for us and
who has this instinctive connection.

1022
00:46:33,014 --> 00:46:37,514
This connection that is so strong,
it's such a strong bond that we

1023
00:46:37,514 --> 00:46:39,044
cannot, we cannot even imagine it.

1024
00:46:39,044 --> 00:46:40,724
We will not have it
with other people even.

1025
00:46:40,724 --> 00:46:44,654
I mean, how, how are your wife or
anybody know when you're coming home?

1026
00:46:44,894 --> 00:46:49,967
So this is such a strong, and
it shows really how, The mind

1027
00:46:50,237 --> 00:46:52,037
of dogs is really different.

1028
00:46:52,037 --> 00:46:56,207
How, how, you know, how they're
kind of energetic field works

1029
00:46:56,207 --> 00:46:57,617
in a completely different way.

1030
00:46:57,622 --> 00:47:01,244
Their sensory is, it's just out of this
world and once we start to understand

1031
00:47:01,249 --> 00:47:06,284
it, then we appreciate them so much more
and then we really know what value they

1032
00:47:06,354 --> 00:47:06,794
Jay: have past.

1033
00:47:06,794 --> 00:47:07,634
Absolutely.

1034
00:47:07,744 --> 00:47:10,964
I think that's like the best place
to draw this to a conclusion.

1035
00:47:11,821 --> 00:47:15,421
mean, everybody loves hearing about the
bond between humans and animals, and I

1036
00:47:15,421 --> 00:47:20,403
think if the one thing they should take
away from this is that, we need to cherish

1037
00:47:20,403 --> 00:47:26,133
them, spend time with them, and recognize
that they're a key to mindfulness

1038
00:47:26,138 --> 00:47:28,263
that we're not utilizing correctly.

1039
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:32,840
I think that it's so fantastic
that you advocate not just for

1040
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,340
a specific animal, but all.

1041
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:39,370
, that they can be healers for
all of us out there, whether

1042
00:47:39,370 --> 00:47:41,320
it be a falcon or a Guinea pig.

1043
00:47:41,587 --> 00:47:44,351
you're gonna get a bond with that
animal because that animal doesn't

1044
00:47:44,351 --> 00:47:45,881
think about the past or the future.

1045
00:47:45,971 --> 00:47:47,741
It's 100% dedicated to you.

1046
00:47:48,011 --> 00:47:48,191
Dr. Margit: Yes.

1047
00:47:48,641 --> 00:47:52,631
And it loves you as you are
without any kind of layers.

1048
00:47:52,636 --> 00:47:55,141
It just loves the pure real.

1049
00:47:55,151 --> 00:47:58,721
You, You don't have to pretend anything,
You don't have to put on a show.

1050
00:47:58,721 --> 00:48:00,781
You don't have to put on anything.

1051
00:48:00,786 --> 00:48:02,861
It's just loves you as you really are.

1052
00:48:02,891 --> 00:48:05,291
And this is so celebrating for us as well.

1053
00:48:05,561 --> 00:48:07,811
You, you don't have to
pretend something to.

1054
00:48:08,571 --> 00:48:09,981
You can just be yourself.

1055
00:48:09,981 --> 00:48:11,541
Authenticity, and that, yeah, that's it.

1056
00:48:11,661 --> 00:48:14,511
This authentic you and
that's what you can be.

1057
00:48:14,511 --> 00:48:16,161
And that's so beautiful actually.

1058
00:48:16,161 --> 00:48:18,861
And that's what we should really
c cherish and, and appreciate so

1059
00:48:18,861 --> 00:48:23,061
much more because it gives us this
feeling, this, this peace and this this

1060
00:48:23,211 --> 00:48:25,491
authentic you and, and that's marvelous.

1061
00:48:25,521 --> 00:48:27,111
Jay: We need to learn to love like a dog.

1062
00:48:27,116 --> 00:48:27,451
Oh.

1063
00:48:27,831 --> 00:48:29,961
If he could do this love
like a dog would change.

1064
00:48:29,961 --> 00:48:31,221
Believe me, it would.

1065
00:48:31,221 --> 00:48:31,671
Man.

1066
00:48:31,671 --> 00:48:33,861
I'm gonna get a T-shirt
that says love like a dog.

1067
00:48:34,371 --> 00:48:34,581
Yes.

1068
00:48:35,031 --> 00:48:38,361
Dr. Margit: Nobody loves you as
truthful and as unconditional as a

1069
00:48:38,361 --> 00:48:38,661
Jay: dog.

1070
00:48:39,711 --> 00:48:41,211
I think that's a great place to end.

1071
00:48:41,541 --> 00:48:41,901
Dr.

1072
00:48:41,901 --> 00:48:44,451
Margaret, I can't thank
you enough for coming on.

1073
00:48:44,451 --> 00:48:49,011
I could listen to you for days because
you're such a wealth of information

1074
00:48:49,101 --> 00:48:50,601
and you have such a great energy.

1075
00:48:50,601 --> 00:48:51,741
You're super happy.

1076
00:48:51,981 --> 00:48:54,831
I can tell you love what you're
doing, which means a lot.

1077
00:48:54,831 --> 00:48:55,881
That's shows.

1078
00:48:56,391 --> 00:49:00,351
If you're authentic and you pursue your
passions, you will have a happy life,

1079
00:49:00,501 --> 00:49:02,481
or at least one that feels fulfilling.

1080
00:49:02,781 --> 00:49:03,501
Dr. Margit: Thank you so much.

1081
00:49:03,501 --> 00:49:03,741
Yes.

1082
00:49:03,741 --> 00:49:06,921
I think that's the key for everything
to, Yeah, to live the passion and

1083
00:49:06,921 --> 00:49:09,381
to live a happy life, and that's
what we should always strive for.

1084
00:49:09,381 --> 00:49:11,151
And thank you so much for inviting me.

1085
00:49:11,171 --> 00:49:13,431
I, I really enjoyed this podcast so much.

1086
00:49:13,431 --> 00:49:14,451
You're really great guys.

1087
00:49:14,451 --> 00:49:16,491
And it was just have a lovely podcast.

1088
00:49:16,491 --> 00:49:17,251
Thank you so

1089
00:49:17,251 --> 00:49:17,411
Jay: much.

1090
00:49:17,836 --> 00:49:18,586
So thank you very much.

1091
00:49:18,586 --> 00:49:21,556
Gary, you got anything you
wanna ask before we wrap up?

1092
00:49:21,916 --> 00:49:22,246
Gary: No.

1093
00:49:22,246 --> 00:49:25,486
I'd least like you to come back on
sometime and, uh, we have so many

1094
00:49:25,486 --> 00:49:27,946
different things you're doing that I
think we just scratched the surface.

1095
00:49:27,946 --> 00:49:31,696
So I think, you know, anytime you
want, come back and we'll have

1096
00:49:31,696 --> 00:49:33,946
a lot more questions and we'll
figure out the snow globe thing.

1097
00:49:33,951 --> 00:49:34,876
Would you bring a falcon on

1098
00:49:37,846 --> 00:49:39,196
?
Jay: I want a falcon in a snow globe.

1099
00:49:39,856 --> 00:49:40,516
Yeah, but

1100
00:49:41,116 --> 00:49:41,956
Gary: that's, a cool idea.

1101
00:49:43,216 --> 00:49:44,106
, I see.

1102
00:49:45,061 --> 00:49:48,631
Dr. Margit: No, I come back because I
think the audience can really benefit a

1103
00:49:48,631 --> 00:49:50,371
lot from these kind of different topics.

1104
00:49:50,371 --> 00:49:53,911
That's what we all try to do to, to
create better lives for everybody

1105
00:49:53,916 --> 00:49:55,591
Jay: and have that's,
that's what we're here for.

1106
00:49:55,591 --> 00:49:58,471
So next time we need to do a live session.

1107
00:49:58,471 --> 00:50:03,541
Get your laptop or your phone, bring
it into the, uh, into the clinic.

1108
00:50:03,911 --> 00:50:05,321
So we can see a falcon.

1109
00:50:05,801 --> 00:50:05,861
Wow.

1110
00:50:06,311 --> 00:50:06,341
Okay.

1111
00:50:06,341 --> 00:50:08,921
We'll do that . That would be super cool.

1112
00:50:08,921 --> 00:50:10,001
I would love to see

1113
00:50:11,231 --> 00:50:12,071
Gary: That's badass.

1114
00:50:12,071 --> 00:50:12,131
Yeah.

1115
00:50:12,131 --> 00:50:12,551
They're so cool.

1116
00:50:13,931 --> 00:50:14,411
.
Jay: Awesome.

1117
00:50:14,711 --> 00:50:17,201
Well, thank you so much for
coming on and remember everybody

1118
00:50:17,201 --> 00:50:18,791
be cool and keep learning.

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Dr. Margit Gabriele Muller is a certified mental health coach who specializes in helping businesswomen who have experienced trauma in their childhood due to their parents' mental illness. A daughter of a mother with mental illness herself, she is passionate about helping these women create a new, positive self that is empowered and resilient. To do this, she has created an online mental health course with private coaching called "Making Peace With Your Past." This course helps women to understand their past better and create a new, positive future.
Dr. Margit is also a Master Life Coach, Professional Certified Coach, NLP Master, Certified Mindfulness Practitioner, veterinarian, speaker, and award-winning author. Her experience and knowledge make her uniquely qualified to help women who have experienced trauma due to their parents' mental illness.
Dr. Margit Muller is the author of the award-winning book "Your Pet, Your Pill®. 101 Inspirational Stories About How Pets Lead You to a Happy, Healthy and Successful Life." In it, she tells stories of how pets have transformed people's lives. She is also a Certified Horse-Guided Empowerment Holistic Horse Coach.
Dr. Muller is also the Executive Director of Abu Dhabi Falcon Hospital, making her the first female falcon doctor in the male-dominated world of Arab falconry. Despite being in a male-dominated field, she has found great success. Dr. Margit is a strong advocate for mental health and is passionate about helping people see the amazing benefits that come with it as well as the h…